That’s a pretty good statistic seeing as they’re probably the only two people in the world who want what’s best for me. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve found that blood truly is thicker than water. While I’m fortunate enough to be blessed with many great friends, sometimes, understandably so, they’re caught up in their own stuff and may not always give the best advice. On the other hand, my parents are always caught up in my stuff, because they’re my parents (this can be a blessing and a curse). So let’s see, what have my parents been right about so far?
- Telling me to never ever date anyone named Steve again.
- Cheering me on to break up with every Steve (and there have been at least five).
- Not saving me by paying off my credit card debt, but helping me by paying off my student loans.
- Pushing me to get my college degree.
- Asking me to always lock my doors and windows.
- Making me wear a sweater when it’s cold. (Now this one is questionable because recent studies show that being out in the cold doesn’t mean you’ll catch cold. But my dad won’t have any of it).
- Being happier to see me single than miserable in the wrong relationship.
Those are just a few examples of a lifetime’s worth of my parents’ wisdom. I’m sure you can find a few of your own.
Word to the wise: Most of the time, it pays to listen to your parents. You may not agree with everything they say, but you should know that’s it’s coming from the best possible place – their hearts. And no one loves you like they do. So the next time they offer you advice, at the very least, think about it.
What do you think? Note: Your comments may be published anonymously in the upcoming book, “Wise Before 25, 50 Things Young Women Should Know.”